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Coaching for Young Women & Mothers Who Refuse to Lose Themselves

For women aged 20–40 navigating marriage, motherhood, identity shifts and overwhelm, and ready to rediscover their strength, confidence, and purpose.

This is for you if…

  • You became a mother and feel like you lost your identity.

  • You got married young and feel disconnected from your dreams.

  • You live in a different country and feel isolated or unsupported.

  • You constantly compare yourself to others and feel “not enough.”

  • You love your family — but you also miss yourself.

  • You feel overwhelmed, anxious, or emotionally exhausted.

  • You want to feel confident again… but don’t know where to start.

You are not broken.

You are not weak.

You are not alone.

You are simply navigating one of the most challenging transitions in a woman’s life.

And you don’t have to do it alone.

THE PROBLEM

Most coaching programs focus on women in midlife.

But what about the young women?

The young mothers?

The women in their 20s and 30s going through identity shifts right now?

This is the stage where:

  • Confidence is fragile

  • Identity is evolving

  • Responsibilities multiply

  • Dreams feel paused

  • Support feels limited

And too many women wait decades before rebuilding themselves.

Valbona believes you shouldn’t have to wait until you are 40 or 50 to rediscover who you are.

Meet Valbona

Hi, I’m Valbona Sulaj.

Founder of New Impact Coaching.

Accredited Health & Wellbeing Coach and Life Coach.

Mother of three.

But before that…

I was a 20-year-old bride who moved to a new country in 2003, alone, homesick, and overwhelmed. I left my family behind. I had to rebuild from scratch. I went from working in an office with a business degree to working in a coffee shop. I studied English at night. I gave birth, and two days later sat an English exam. I rebuilt my education. Earned my Business & HR degree in the UK. Worked for 10 years as an NHS interpreter. Worked in retail. And for the last six years, I’ve worked in a secondary special needs school supporting neurodiverse children.

But the biggest turning point of my life came when my son was diagnosed with autism.

I was 27. I had never even heard the word properly. When I opened the diagnosis folder and read, “There is no cure,” my world collapsed. It took me two years to even say the word “autism” out loud.

I felt isolated. Disconnected. Different from other mothers. Overwhelmed. Lost.

And that is why I do this work. Because I know what it feels like to lose yourself. And I know what it takes to rebuild.

WHY I DO THIS

I don’t want women to:

  • Feel invisible after becoming mothers.

  • Silence their dreams.

  • Lose decades doubting themselves.

  • Feel ashamed for struggling.

  • Navigate life transitions without support.

I want young women — especially young mothers — to:

  • Keep their identity.

  • Build confidence early.

  • Develop resilience.

  • Feel empowered.

  • Grow alongside their family — not disappear within it.

You can be a devoted mother and still be YOU.

You can build a family without losing your dreams.

You can be strong — even when life is hard.

In Your Free 30-Minute Clarity Session, You Will:

  1. Identify what’s currently making you feel stuck or overwhelmed.

  2. Gain clarity on what you truly want for yourself — not just your family.

  3. Recognize patterns that may be affecting your confidence.

  4. Discover practical first steps to rebuild balance and identity.

  5. Understand how coaching can support your growth long-term.

This session is not a sales pitch. It’s a safe space to talk, reflect, and gain clarity.

What We Work On Together

If we decide to continue working together, here’s what we focus on:

  1. Rebuilding self-confidence

  2. Emotional resilience

  3. Identity rediscovery

  4. Managing overwhelm & anxiety

  5. Healthy boundaries

  6. Goal setting aligned with motherhood and personal growth

  7. Reconnecting with your dreams

  8. Balancing family life without losing yourself

This is not about “doing more.”

It’s about becoming stronger from within.

THE TRANSFORMATION

Imagine if you could:

  • Feel confident in your decisions.

  • Stop comparing yourself to others.

  • Feel emotionally stronger.

  • Speak about your struggles without shame.

  • Support your family without sacrificing your identity.

  • Wake up feeling aligned with who you are.

That transformation is possible.

And it doesn’t have to take decades.

Ready to Reconnect With Yourself?

Book your FREE 30-minute Clarity Session with Valbona.

This is your safe space. No judgment. No pressure. Just support.

👉 Click below to apply for your free session.

(Spots are limited each week to ensure personal attention.)

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